Humor as a Language For Leadership Communication
How authentic humor builds trust, eases tension, and strengthens connection
Why humor communicates what words alone can’t
In leadership, there are moments when direct words can feel too sharp, too risky, or too vulnerable. Humor can bridge that gap, making it possible to convey empathy, reassurance, or truth in a way that lands.
“We use humor as a love language to say things that we couldn't or wouldn't say directly.” – Beth Sherman
The human roots of humor as connection
Comedian and keynote speaker Beth Sherman’s own understanding of humor as a leadership tool came from seeing her father as a primary language for connection.
“The only way he could express himself at all was through humor.” – Beth Sherman
The leadership takeaway
Leaders who understand humor as a love language can:
Defuse tension without dismissing the issue
Show care and reassurance in ways that feel natural and safe
Build trust by signaling humanity, not just authority
Watch the video below to hear Beth’s full story — and how one powerful moment illustrates the extraordinary power of humor for communication.
(Related reading: Why humor builds instant connection in business and leadership and Why humor is a leadership skill every smart leader needs)
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Beth Sherman is a comedian and 7-time Emmy Award-winning comedy writer and keynote speaker who helps leaders and teams use humor as a tool for connection, persuasion, and performance, delivering programs that are as actionable as they are engaging.
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